Parenting Daily

Happy Independence Day to my American readers! Let’s take a moment to reflect on the positives of this day for teens.

For one, it is a great time to review some history lessons. American presidents, wars, the Boston tea party, etc. You know, if you’re feeling educational.

It’s also a great time to reminisce. My mom’s favorite Fourth of July story was the kid she knew who closed his hand around a firecracker and blew his hands to bits. Good cautionary tale, though. I’ve never gotten close to fireworks beyond sparklers and those snap things that you can throw at the ground.

It’s also a wonderful time to seize the opportunity to talk about neighborly courtesy. I think I’ve mentioned before that I, personally, am not a fan of noisy stereos in homes, cars, outside, etc. If I can hear it in my enclosed habitat/room/cage, it’s too loud. Put your headphones on. But seriously, some neighbors will call the cops, complain, yell at you, etc. So find out what the regulations are in your area, teach them to your teen, and teach them that a little respect for their neighbors goes a long way towards keeping the peace at home.

Barbeque. If there are traditions in your family regarding the barbeque, why not teach your teens? Soon enough they’ll be on their own and won’t it be nice for them to carry on a little piece of home via bbq traditions? Dads, trust your sons to flip those burgers or season the right way (well, guide them at least!). Moms, teach the girls how to stroke the men’s egos for their bountiful bbq prowess. (Yes, that was blatantly and unforgivingly sexist of me to say)

Enjoy your time as a family. Be safe, be joyous, and don’t tick off the neighbors.